The questions can be about anything! School, clothes, parents, friends, boys or whatever!!!!Please leave serous questions!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks!!!!! =]I have to make a teen magazine for a project. There is going to be an advice column but I need questions??????
What is the most stressful/pressuring thing in your life?
Do you hate the pressure of everyone having a boyfriend/girlfriend?
Do you wish that image didn't matter?
Have you ever really hated something your best friend did/said?I have to make a teen magazine for a project. There is going to be an advice column but I need questions??????
Whens the last time you told your parents you love and/or appreciate them?
Why do guys always have to talk about the girl they scored?
Where do I go to find the best fast food after the game?
Why do I feel the way I do when my life is good and I have it all?? I feel alone but have friends, I feel afraid, but am the president of my class?? Help me please!
Where is the best place to find a prom dress?
What do i do if i really i mean really like someoone but i don't kno if he/she likes me back?
How can you tell if someone is lieing in front of your face like you bf/gf is cheatin but u don't kno how to tell if they are or not?
Thursday, July 29, 2010
I'm a teen and Ive been wearing the same make-up for so long I need some advice.?
Wear eyeliner around the rims below your eye, on top and apply a bit of black eyeshadow it looks gorgeous and makes your eyes magical.
also go bold with your lip gloss use a sparkley bright pink or a maroonish purple it looks really good with brown eyes.
Blush is definatley something to say away from unless you find there is a problem in your face, eg pimples, big nose etc
Personally i wear a bit of blue eyeliner (so it looks glamourus)
mascara and this amazing hot lips pink lip gloss that isn't sticky to your hair and doesn't come off when you touch your lips yet its like every other lipgloss
hoped i helped!I'm a teen and Ive been wearing the same make-up for so long I need some advice.?
hey, what you need is some ';fresh'; make up. It is totaly cute, sassy,chick, and not too much, just the right touch for the day.
Hope this helps!
AnonymousI'm a teen and Ive been wearing the same make-up for so long I need some advice.?
Go to a M.A.C counter and have them do your make-up. If you like it you can buy the products on the spot, if not just walk out ,go home, and wash off
That's one of my pet peeves- people not changing their look. Hair grows out %26amp; makeup washes off. You can buy makeup books or magazines. Try different looks, different colors, even colors that you automatically dislike. I saw this deep fushia/pink once %26amp; thought - Who would wear that? but tried it, %26amp; it became my favorite!
some people go to department stores and ask the people at estee lauder or clinique. they'll be able to identify your skin type but otherwise they aren't really experts. it's good to spend a lot of money on something like skin products or concealor but otherwise i'd say try some cheap, fun colors from the drugstore or subscribe to sephora and see what's new in the makeup world.
wearing make up will make ur skin harmful bcoz the make up is full of chemical..to prevent it try using moisturizer bfore u apply the foundation on ur face to protect ur skin from clogs pore...try to find the best way to make up ur face...
change your make-up
I also like Allure magazine. GIves you some great ideas on trends, new stuff and good ideas on what to use and how to use it.
I don't find the hard copy too expensive.
use a different type of make-up.
JUST DON'T WEAR MAKE UP AT ALL
also go bold with your lip gloss use a sparkley bright pink or a maroonish purple it looks really good with brown eyes.
Blush is definatley something to say away from unless you find there is a problem in your face, eg pimples, big nose etc
Personally i wear a bit of blue eyeliner (so it looks glamourus)
mascara and this amazing hot lips pink lip gloss that isn't sticky to your hair and doesn't come off when you touch your lips yet its like every other lipgloss
hoped i helped!I'm a teen and Ive been wearing the same make-up for so long I need some advice.?
hey, what you need is some ';fresh'; make up. It is totaly cute, sassy,chick, and not too much, just the right touch for the day.
Hope this helps!
AnonymousI'm a teen and Ive been wearing the same make-up for so long I need some advice.?
Go to a M.A.C counter and have them do your make-up. If you like it you can buy the products on the spot, if not just walk out ,go home, and wash off
That's one of my pet peeves- people not changing their look. Hair grows out %26amp; makeup washes off. You can buy makeup books or magazines. Try different looks, different colors, even colors that you automatically dislike. I saw this deep fushia/pink once %26amp; thought - Who would wear that? but tried it, %26amp; it became my favorite!
some people go to department stores and ask the people at estee lauder or clinique. they'll be able to identify your skin type but otherwise they aren't really experts. it's good to spend a lot of money on something like skin products or concealor but otherwise i'd say try some cheap, fun colors from the drugstore or subscribe to sephora and see what's new in the makeup world.
wearing make up will make ur skin harmful bcoz the make up is full of chemical..to prevent it try using moisturizer bfore u apply the foundation on ur face to protect ur skin from clogs pore...try to find the best way to make up ur face...
change your make-up
I also like Allure magazine. GIves you some great ideas on trends, new stuff and good ideas on what to use and how to use it.
I don't find the hard copy too expensive.
use a different type of make-up.
JUST DON'T WEAR MAKE UP AT ALL
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Should i under the advice of my lawyer 7.0 put in aqua teen hunger froce for my kid and take the red pill?
jk ppl so relaxShould i under the advice of my lawyer 7.0 put in aqua teen hunger froce for my kid and take the red pill?
that's right. you gotta save the blue ones for Gummi...Should i under the advice of my lawyer 7.0 put in aqua teen hunger froce for my kid and take the red pill?
That's what you pay your lawyer for, so...
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yes.
damn, me and my toddler actually do watch that! lol
take the red pill, forget the lawyer, pay attention to the kid, and raise a lot of peaches....
that's right. you gotta save the blue ones for Gummi...Should i under the advice of my lawyer 7.0 put in aqua teen hunger froce for my kid and take the red pill?
That's what you pay your lawyer for, so...
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yes.
damn, me and my toddler actually do watch that! lol
take the red pill, forget the lawyer, pay attention to the kid, and raise a lot of peaches....
For older women and teen girls from younger who needs advice*PLEASE HELP* ND BOYYSSS?
i see alot of ppl *** up here about kissing and eating me out as i jus seen and etc. but i need sum advice myself my aunt tells me that i shouldnt be worried about my ';insecurities'; lyk mah body and what if he thinks this that and the other is weird and what if i don't have matching underwear and bra etc. she said if they and i care i shouldnt b doin htat anyway cuz they don't care about that stuff nd i have big thighs any advice????*not talking about sex idc bout that but include in scenario pleez...*For older women and teen girls from younger who needs advice*PLEASE HELP* ND BOYYSSS?
I have no idea what you're talking about.For older women and teen girls from younger who needs advice*PLEASE HELP* ND BOYYSSS?
(im a guy) what kind of shallow guy would care if you are wearing matching underwear. maybe if you were lesbian (girls tend to be more shallow :P)
if i liked you in anyway, you will be the only thing in my mind. girls say im attractive and hot but i find that curvy/women with weight is so sexy. dont be ashamed we love women of all shapes
That made milnimal sense...but, no guy should care if your bra or panties match. And you shouldn't worry about a guy eating you out or kissing you. Why have you seen a lot of this though? Just let it happen naturally.
wait what? are you saying that there's these guys who want you but you're insecure? or that you're looking for a guy who will want you the way you are. I'm confused.
if a guy truly likes you he shouldnt care.
hopefully you arent going to go around doing that stuff with random guys. but if they say somethin bad about your body or anything then they dont deserve getting a piece of you
Love yourself for who you are and don't worry what other people think. Just as long as you were clean undergarments, who cares if they match! Don't worry about this stuff so much. Good Luck
do what your worring about
You are making NO sense! What is this question even about?
If your primary concern when it comes to being sexually active is insecurities about your body, you should know that for one, it's normal, and for two, if it is so pressing on you that it makes you not want to get involved, then you shouldn't.
We all have insecurities about our bodies, both men AND women. Being naked with another person is a very sensitive and personal moment, especially the first time.
If you don't want to worry about those things as much for your first time with someone, you should make sure to establish a solid relationship with that person first. Let them fall for you and who you are, before bringing sex into the equation. That way, you already trust the person to care for you and not hurt you when the moment comes to become sexually active with them.
Guys really don't care about big thighs, stretch marks, matching underwear, all those things... I read once that you shouldn't worry about those things with men, because all they really want is to get an eyeful... lol... I'm a bigger girl myself, and I have gone through a lot of insecurity moments... I have pushed through some of them thinking I was being stupid, and then realized later that it wasn't because of my body so much as I didn't trust the guy to continue caring for me after they saw my body. I then decided to wait, and I found a man that I truly believed cared for me, and so when I finally did let down my guard and take off my clothes with him, I was nervous but not scared. You know what? He was so excited to be skin to skin with me that I completely forgot about my stretch marks or the scar I have here or there or anything of that sort. We had an amazing time, because we already cared for each other, and I knew he wouldn't do anything to hurt me.
So I guess my point is, you need to establish a trust before you put yourself in such a vulnerable place. You can even discuss it directly with your potential partner beforehand (that's what we did) so to make sure they understand where you are coming from.
I also found it helpful to read some sexual health books, there are many out there, that discuss the female body and what's normal... Because many of them have pictures and things, as well as stories from women that have been through these things, and you can see how normal your worries really are.
I have no idea what you're talking about.For older women and teen girls from younger who needs advice*PLEASE HELP* ND BOYYSSS?
(im a guy) what kind of shallow guy would care if you are wearing matching underwear. maybe if you were lesbian (girls tend to be more shallow :P)
if i liked you in anyway, you will be the only thing in my mind. girls say im attractive and hot but i find that curvy/women with weight is so sexy. dont be ashamed we love women of all shapes
That made milnimal sense...but, no guy should care if your bra or panties match. And you shouldn't worry about a guy eating you out or kissing you. Why have you seen a lot of this though? Just let it happen naturally.
wait what? are you saying that there's these guys who want you but you're insecure? or that you're looking for a guy who will want you the way you are. I'm confused.
if a guy truly likes you he shouldnt care.
hopefully you arent going to go around doing that stuff with random guys. but if they say somethin bad about your body or anything then they dont deserve getting a piece of you
Love yourself for who you are and don't worry what other people think. Just as long as you were clean undergarments, who cares if they match! Don't worry about this stuff so much. Good Luck
do what your worring about
You are making NO sense! What is this question even about?
If your primary concern when it comes to being sexually active is insecurities about your body, you should know that for one, it's normal, and for two, if it is so pressing on you that it makes you not want to get involved, then you shouldn't.
We all have insecurities about our bodies, both men AND women. Being naked with another person is a very sensitive and personal moment, especially the first time.
If you don't want to worry about those things as much for your first time with someone, you should make sure to establish a solid relationship with that person first. Let them fall for you and who you are, before bringing sex into the equation. That way, you already trust the person to care for you and not hurt you when the moment comes to become sexually active with them.
Guys really don't care about big thighs, stretch marks, matching underwear, all those things... I read once that you shouldn't worry about those things with men, because all they really want is to get an eyeful... lol... I'm a bigger girl myself, and I have gone through a lot of insecurity moments... I have pushed through some of them thinking I was being stupid, and then realized later that it wasn't because of my body so much as I didn't trust the guy to continue caring for me after they saw my body. I then decided to wait, and I found a man that I truly believed cared for me, and so when I finally did let down my guard and take off my clothes with him, I was nervous but not scared. You know what? He was so excited to be skin to skin with me that I completely forgot about my stretch marks or the scar I have here or there or anything of that sort. We had an amazing time, because we already cared for each other, and I knew he wouldn't do anything to hurt me.
So I guess my point is, you need to establish a trust before you put yourself in such a vulnerable place. You can even discuss it directly with your potential partner beforehand (that's what we did) so to make sure they understand where you are coming from.
I also found it helpful to read some sexual health books, there are many out there, that discuss the female body and what's normal... Because many of them have pictures and things, as well as stories from women that have been through these things, and you can see how normal your worries really are.
Teen Mommy-To-Be In Need For ALOT Of Advice. . .?
Im 18 %26amp; 32 Weeks Pregnant. I Feel like im showing signs that labor is coming soon. Ive tried asking my mom %26amp; she just freeks me out even more. Im Losing Weight, Leaking From my vagina and breasts, i feel like shes about ready to fall out sometimes because shes pushing down so hard, i have stomach cramps everyday atleast 4-6 times a day, i have headaches, swelling %26amp; im not as hungry as i use to be.
since im so young i realize preterm labor is already a risk. Im just nerves to have a baby in the hospital for weeks because she came to early. my last ultrasound she was 4 lbs, %26amp; a good size for being 32 weeks.
any advice?Teen Mommy-To-Be In Need For ALOT Of Advice. . .?
Your questions need answering. Call your doc and see her today.Teen Mommy-To-Be In Need For ALOT Of Advice. . .?
I was 18 when I had my first and he didnt wanna come OUT so everyone is different... but you will notice alot of different things...
its scary but you will know when your in labor try to relax and not worry about it so much... she shouldnt come out yet only cuz your 32 weeks and still is putting baby fat on...
The leaking is NORMAL i had that too and it freaked me out but just try relaxing it helps...
call your doctor and ask because u could be in early labor im 18 and ill be 32 weeks Wednesday don't be scared if she is 4 ibs that's very good and i say she wont have to stay in the hospital that long if at all because i know a girl that had a baby at 32weeks and got to take her home the same day she went home just call the doctor or the hospital and tell them what is going on
Pray, and don't worry about all the scary stories, because every pregnancy is different, so you can not judge by that. All those thing you described is normal in pregnancies. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND YOU BABY IS GOING TO BE JUST FINE.
Like the person before me said, Braxton Hicks contractions are normal. However if your contractions become 2 minutes apart or there is fluid leaking from your vaginal area that cannot be stopped (basically your bag broke) you need to contact your doctor right away.
hi, Sounds like labor could be coming soon for you but if it does,its coming for me too than.Im 34 weeks and 5 days pregnant and im having the same thing to me every day.I have no idea why i don't feel like eating and at my last scan (a week ago) my baby was 4 pounds 3 oz.So my baby is going to be little i guess anyways(like my first, 5 pound 13oz).I stayed in hospital 6 days and sweetie,its not that bad having a baby that small.If you were to go into labor now,they would stop it. As for the leaking from your vagina,that could be just some thrush due to infection near your cervix(like mine and now im on cream) and it doesn't hurt or smell or nothing like that.I thought my water had broken lol.Anyways good luck and congrats on your baby
P.S. i would get checked out by your doctor to see if the fluid you are loosing could be thrush or water.Also from now on,your baby will gain half a pound a week.Good luck
The headaches and swelling may be related to some pregnancy conditions that happen during pregnancy, called Preeclampsia. It usually shows itself with the signs of swelling of the extremities (hands, face, feet especially, pretty much any place that gravity is pulling fluids down).
You need to go to the doctor though. I mean honestly, if you go to the doctor they can give you medications to help stop your labor if this is an issue with your baby, or at least they can give you steriods to help develop the babies lungs a better chance of living if he/she is prematurely born. Going to the doctor is definitely not going to cause you to go into labor, but it definitely could save your life and your babies. If you are developing a pregnancy related disease such as preeclampsia giving birth any other way could cause you to die, and your child.
Good luck and please receive medical attention! It's important!
Welcome to pregnancy! Your body will do all kinds of wierd things. Braxton-Hicks contractions are normal and some women have them early, more regular and harder than other women. Pains like you describe can be nothing...wait for labor....now that is pain! Headaches could be hormonal pains, I had them a lot while pregnant, but if any of your symptoms max out then go to the hospital they are used to seeing first time moms overreacting to what feels like early symptoms of labor. You will know and 18 is not too young to be at such high risk, you are a ';normal'; age for handling pregnancy, just sit tight and rest up for the real thing! Good luck!
I'd say your best bet would be to have your dr do an internal exam at your next appt to see if you've started to become effaced or diliated. All of the symptoms you say are what you possibly think are signs of preterm labor are normal for this point in pregnancy. An increase in discharge from both the breasts and vagina are hormonal changes as your body gets ready for delivery. As are the headaches. Her moving into your birth canal is also normal. You not being hungry is due to all of your organs being squished together to make room for the baby and thus making you feel full longer. I've also lost about 5 lbs since 29 weeks. Good luck, she'll be here very soon!
your going to be ok and so is your little one i had my first son at 16 and he was born at 35 weeks 6lb 5oz, you do get less hungry you don't have as much room because as you get to the end the baby can gain about a 1/2 pound a week! yes it is completely normal for you to be leaking, you may notice you have lost your mucus plus wich is kinda gross lol but it will tell you that u are getting close. everything you have sais is normal. you maybe starting to dialate and eface, which will help your labor go faster! you will know the real contractions come they will get worse as each one comes. and they can feel like really bad cramps in your back, or they can feel like the worst pms cramps. just try to keep a watch with you to keep an eye on the ';cramps'; which are either real contractions or braxton hicks. when they do an internal exam they will be able to tell which kind they were. you could go any time or you can make it the full forty. for the swelling stay off your feet and elevate them. also ice packs on oyur feet amd ankels can help. the pressure is her moving further down the birth canal and into position. make sure tyou are drinking plenty of fluids to keep yourself from becoming dehydrated this could also cause swellin and headaches. i had contractions from 28 weeks on. by the time i was 33 weeks i was 3cm dialated and completely efaced. you will know when it is time i promise you that. i had all natural child birth, and when the baby is coming out your body takes over. it will push the baby out and you can't fight it. but you will know this way ahead of time. as for the baby she should be fine even if you went now. there are amazing things they can do. best of luck
You are young and as a young person,likely very active.
If this is the case then it is possible that your level of activity can be causing pre term labor.
The plus is that active women have it easier in the delivery room.
The minus is your baby needs these last 8 weeks.
Your baby's lungs need just a little more time,although if baby were born now it is unlikely that baby wouldn't be able to breathe on his/her own.
Baby would be too small and frail at 32 weeks as the last 2 months is a time of substantial weight gain for baby. Also while most babies are in the correct position by now,some babies turn later in the pregnancy..meaning there's a possibility baby could be breech.
If I were in the same position I'd see my doctor or head to an ER immediately about the leaking from the vagina as the fluid loss is bad for the baby and possibly dangerous depending on the amount of leakage ...leaking from the breasts is normal as your breasts are preparing to excrete milk for your baby and have already started producing it.Have your mother buy you nursing pads (whether or not you are going to breastfeed you'll need them) they get inserted into your bra and absorb the milk so that your clothing and bras don't get stained or wet.Washing the nipples with mild soap and warm water will ease some discomfort and help prevent the skin on your nipples from cracking and bleeding. Applying a color and scent free lotion or Vaseline to the nipples after washing will help also. Finally,if you are enrolled in school or have a job time off may be in order. I would relax and avoid stress and excessive lifting and bending over until after delivery. Avoid anything that puts pressure on your stomach as this will increase leaking of fluid.Wear loose fitting clothing and try to lay back or recline when sitting.Get up from sitting or laying positions SLOWLY and avoid stomach or side sleeping try to sleep on your back,I know it can be hard but it is best. Make an appointment immediately to see your doctor about the fluid you are losing,stay hydrated drink water,vitamin water,Gatorade or even Pedialyte so that your body can replace the lost fluid and electrolytes.I'd also start wearing a maxi pad to monitor the amount of fluid that is leaking.IF AT ANY point in time you feel a gush of fluid bigger than usual or that feels as though you may have peed yourself or any discharge of fluid that is followed by cramping pains get to a hospital IMMEDIATELY as this is a sign of labor and could indicate that your water has broken.It's unfortunate to hear that your doctor's an ***...it is true that it's harder to find care later on in pregnancy.You could contact a midwife for advice and help these last few months or upon one of the many ';I think I'm in labor'; hospital false alarm visits you are guaranteed to have ahead of you....tell the hospital about your problems and that your physician is unresponsive and appears not to be concerned. Tell them that you don't feel comfortable with him delivering your baby and they'll happily arrange for one of their doctors to at the very least take you on until delivery. :)
Congratulations on your little one and BEST of luck!!!
Well, I would say the water is ambiotic fluid, but I would consult a GP to see if this is normal, or if you're going to have a premature baby. As for labor being a higher risk at a younger age, that's a myth, it depends on the person and genetics. There are fifteen year olds that give birth just fine while a woman in her twenties and thirties will have minor to severe complications. To elaborate on that statement, there was a reason why girls were married off at 15 and 16 in the Edwardian era- because young women are extremely fertile and have easier pregnancies, so I don't know where you're getting the information that this is going to be a hard birth because you're on the young side of normal for having a child. Too bad your mother is being immature about this, it's not like you're 12, I'm getting so sick of the media condemning girls who are 16 and over for conceiving and having children- sh*t happens. Like I said, contact your GP to make sure this is normal, and tell your mother to grow up.
Thats normal in pregnancy i went in to pre term labor at 33wks and the stop it and i was still having contractions until i had my son and he was 2wks early if ur doctor thinks ur going into pre term then he or she will send u to the hospital!
First off you are not a teen mommy 18 is of legal age. Second, please sit down, and put your feet up, so that if you are in early labor, you can slow things down a little. What you are feeling in your lower abdomen or stomach is your pelvis stretching preparing for delivery or what is known as Braxton-Hicks. All the headaches and edema is not unusual during pregnancy. That's why putting your feet up is helpful to reduce the swelling. This happens to most women or mommy's to be during pregnancy. These are your last few weeks, and you are just tired of being pregnant and all sort of things are going to go through your head as you become closer to delivery. If after sitting down and elevating your feet doesn't ease some of these symptoms then of course PLEASE CONTACT YOUR OB/GYN.
no..no labor. just seems like regular aches and pains associated with that last trimester on its way....i hate to be the one to tell you that the closer you get to the ending the more uncomfortable it can get..don't worry about your mom she is more nervous than you cause you are her baby having a baby..she is gonna have a hard time seeing you in that much painthe bees
since im so young i realize preterm labor is already a risk. Im just nerves to have a baby in the hospital for weeks because she came to early. my last ultrasound she was 4 lbs, %26amp; a good size for being 32 weeks.
any advice?Teen Mommy-To-Be In Need For ALOT Of Advice. . .?
Your questions need answering. Call your doc and see her today.Teen Mommy-To-Be In Need For ALOT Of Advice. . .?
I was 18 when I had my first and he didnt wanna come OUT so everyone is different... but you will notice alot of different things...
its scary but you will know when your in labor try to relax and not worry about it so much... she shouldnt come out yet only cuz your 32 weeks and still is putting baby fat on...
The leaking is NORMAL i had that too and it freaked me out but just try relaxing it helps...
call your doctor and ask because u could be in early labor im 18 and ill be 32 weeks Wednesday don't be scared if she is 4 ibs that's very good and i say she wont have to stay in the hospital that long if at all because i know a girl that had a baby at 32weeks and got to take her home the same day she went home just call the doctor or the hospital and tell them what is going on
Pray, and don't worry about all the scary stories, because every pregnancy is different, so you can not judge by that. All those thing you described is normal in pregnancies. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND YOU BABY IS GOING TO BE JUST FINE.
Like the person before me said, Braxton Hicks contractions are normal. However if your contractions become 2 minutes apart or there is fluid leaking from your vaginal area that cannot be stopped (basically your bag broke) you need to contact your doctor right away.
hi, Sounds like labor could be coming soon for you but if it does,its coming for me too than.Im 34 weeks and 5 days pregnant and im having the same thing to me every day.I have no idea why i don't feel like eating and at my last scan (a week ago) my baby was 4 pounds 3 oz.So my baby is going to be little i guess anyways(like my first, 5 pound 13oz).I stayed in hospital 6 days and sweetie,its not that bad having a baby that small.If you were to go into labor now,they would stop it. As for the leaking from your vagina,that could be just some thrush due to infection near your cervix(like mine and now im on cream) and it doesn't hurt or smell or nothing like that.I thought my water had broken lol.Anyways good luck and congrats on your baby
P.S. i would get checked out by your doctor to see if the fluid you are loosing could be thrush or water.Also from now on,your baby will gain half a pound a week.Good luck
The headaches and swelling may be related to some pregnancy conditions that happen during pregnancy, called Preeclampsia. It usually shows itself with the signs of swelling of the extremities (hands, face, feet especially, pretty much any place that gravity is pulling fluids down).
You need to go to the doctor though. I mean honestly, if you go to the doctor they can give you medications to help stop your labor if this is an issue with your baby, or at least they can give you steriods to help develop the babies lungs a better chance of living if he/she is prematurely born. Going to the doctor is definitely not going to cause you to go into labor, but it definitely could save your life and your babies. If you are developing a pregnancy related disease such as preeclampsia giving birth any other way could cause you to die, and your child.
Good luck and please receive medical attention! It's important!
Welcome to pregnancy! Your body will do all kinds of wierd things. Braxton-Hicks contractions are normal and some women have them early, more regular and harder than other women. Pains like you describe can be nothing...wait for labor....now that is pain! Headaches could be hormonal pains, I had them a lot while pregnant, but if any of your symptoms max out then go to the hospital they are used to seeing first time moms overreacting to what feels like early symptoms of labor. You will know and 18 is not too young to be at such high risk, you are a ';normal'; age for handling pregnancy, just sit tight and rest up for the real thing! Good luck!
I'd say your best bet would be to have your dr do an internal exam at your next appt to see if you've started to become effaced or diliated. All of the symptoms you say are what you possibly think are signs of preterm labor are normal for this point in pregnancy. An increase in discharge from both the breasts and vagina are hormonal changes as your body gets ready for delivery. As are the headaches. Her moving into your birth canal is also normal. You not being hungry is due to all of your organs being squished together to make room for the baby and thus making you feel full longer. I've also lost about 5 lbs since 29 weeks. Good luck, she'll be here very soon!
your going to be ok and so is your little one i had my first son at 16 and he was born at 35 weeks 6lb 5oz, you do get less hungry you don't have as much room because as you get to the end the baby can gain about a 1/2 pound a week! yes it is completely normal for you to be leaking, you may notice you have lost your mucus plus wich is kinda gross lol but it will tell you that u are getting close. everything you have sais is normal. you maybe starting to dialate and eface, which will help your labor go faster! you will know the real contractions come they will get worse as each one comes. and they can feel like really bad cramps in your back, or they can feel like the worst pms cramps. just try to keep a watch with you to keep an eye on the ';cramps'; which are either real contractions or braxton hicks. when they do an internal exam they will be able to tell which kind they were. you could go any time or you can make it the full forty. for the swelling stay off your feet and elevate them. also ice packs on oyur feet amd ankels can help. the pressure is her moving further down the birth canal and into position. make sure tyou are drinking plenty of fluids to keep yourself from becoming dehydrated this could also cause swellin and headaches. i had contractions from 28 weeks on. by the time i was 33 weeks i was 3cm dialated and completely efaced. you will know when it is time i promise you that. i had all natural child birth, and when the baby is coming out your body takes over. it will push the baby out and you can't fight it. but you will know this way ahead of time. as for the baby she should be fine even if you went now. there are amazing things they can do. best of luck
You are young and as a young person,likely very active.
If this is the case then it is possible that your level of activity can be causing pre term labor.
The plus is that active women have it easier in the delivery room.
The minus is your baby needs these last 8 weeks.
Your baby's lungs need just a little more time,although if baby were born now it is unlikely that baby wouldn't be able to breathe on his/her own.
Baby would be too small and frail at 32 weeks as the last 2 months is a time of substantial weight gain for baby. Also while most babies are in the correct position by now,some babies turn later in the pregnancy..meaning there's a possibility baby could be breech.
If I were in the same position I'd see my doctor or head to an ER immediately about the leaking from the vagina as the fluid loss is bad for the baby and possibly dangerous depending on the amount of leakage ...leaking from the breasts is normal as your breasts are preparing to excrete milk for your baby and have already started producing it.Have your mother buy you nursing pads (whether or not you are going to breastfeed you'll need them) they get inserted into your bra and absorb the milk so that your clothing and bras don't get stained or wet.Washing the nipples with mild soap and warm water will ease some discomfort and help prevent the skin on your nipples from cracking and bleeding. Applying a color and scent free lotion or Vaseline to the nipples after washing will help also. Finally,if you are enrolled in school or have a job time off may be in order. I would relax and avoid stress and excessive lifting and bending over until after delivery. Avoid anything that puts pressure on your stomach as this will increase leaking of fluid.Wear loose fitting clothing and try to lay back or recline when sitting.Get up from sitting or laying positions SLOWLY and avoid stomach or side sleeping try to sleep on your back,I know it can be hard but it is best. Make an appointment immediately to see your doctor about the fluid you are losing,stay hydrated drink water,vitamin water,Gatorade or even Pedialyte so that your body can replace the lost fluid and electrolytes.I'd also start wearing a maxi pad to monitor the amount of fluid that is leaking.IF AT ANY point in time you feel a gush of fluid bigger than usual or that feels as though you may have peed yourself or any discharge of fluid that is followed by cramping pains get to a hospital IMMEDIATELY as this is a sign of labor and could indicate that your water has broken.It's unfortunate to hear that your doctor's an ***...it is true that it's harder to find care later on in pregnancy.You could contact a midwife for advice and help these last few months or upon one of the many ';I think I'm in labor'; hospital false alarm visits you are guaranteed to have ahead of you....tell the hospital about your problems and that your physician is unresponsive and appears not to be concerned. Tell them that you don't feel comfortable with him delivering your baby and they'll happily arrange for one of their doctors to at the very least take you on until delivery. :)
Congratulations on your little one and BEST of luck!!!
Well, I would say the water is ambiotic fluid, but I would consult a GP to see if this is normal, or if you're going to have a premature baby. As for labor being a higher risk at a younger age, that's a myth, it depends on the person and genetics. There are fifteen year olds that give birth just fine while a woman in her twenties and thirties will have minor to severe complications. To elaborate on that statement, there was a reason why girls were married off at 15 and 16 in the Edwardian era- because young women are extremely fertile and have easier pregnancies, so I don't know where you're getting the information that this is going to be a hard birth because you're on the young side of normal for having a child. Too bad your mother is being immature about this, it's not like you're 12, I'm getting so sick of the media condemning girls who are 16 and over for conceiving and having children- sh*t happens. Like I said, contact your GP to make sure this is normal, and tell your mother to grow up.
Thats normal in pregnancy i went in to pre term labor at 33wks and the stop it and i was still having contractions until i had my son and he was 2wks early if ur doctor thinks ur going into pre term then he or she will send u to the hospital!
First off you are not a teen mommy 18 is of legal age. Second, please sit down, and put your feet up, so that if you are in early labor, you can slow things down a little. What you are feeling in your lower abdomen or stomach is your pelvis stretching preparing for delivery or what is known as Braxton-Hicks. All the headaches and edema is not unusual during pregnancy. That's why putting your feet up is helpful to reduce the swelling. This happens to most women or mommy's to be during pregnancy. These are your last few weeks, and you are just tired of being pregnant and all sort of things are going to go through your head as you become closer to delivery. If after sitting down and elevating your feet doesn't ease some of these symptoms then of course PLEASE CONTACT YOUR OB/GYN.
no..no labor. just seems like regular aches and pains associated with that last trimester on its way....i hate to be the one to tell you that the closer you get to the ending the more uncomfortable it can get..don't worry about your mom she is more nervous than you cause you are her baby having a baby..she is gonna have a hard time seeing you in that much pain
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-I have a crush on one of my guy friends. I want to ask him out but I'm afraid if he says no it will ruin or friendship
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-I asked my mom if I could start wearing make-up to school because everyone else is. She got really mad at me and told me I don't need it, but I'm (insert age here) and I think I should!
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hope that gave you some ideas.I have to make a teen magazine for a project. There is going to be an advice column but I need questions??????
I like two boys a lot. And I know that they both like me, so, here's my problem: Every time I hang out with one guy, the other one gets jelous. I can't go on dates with them and I don't know how to deal with the situation, what should I do?
I hvae shoulder length brown hair and blue eyes. Really fair skin and a round face. What makeup color do you think would go best for me?
I have this graduation dress, it is really pretty, but I need some shoes to go with it, the colors in the dress are, violet, yellow, a little brown, and green. What should I get?????
Try I am in school and i get bullied for being a virgin what should i do
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I am pregnant and i cant afford stuff
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I am teenager who needs help with feeling comfortable to read in class. I can read well but when they ask i get all anxious
I have a huge crush on my friend's boyfriend and I think he might like me too, what should I do?
I have really bad acne and i don't know how to controlt it--help!!
Thanks!!!!! =]
Questions like this are great:
*I have two friends who don鈥檛 get along. I鈥檓 friends with both of them and it鈥檚 really bothering me that all three of us can鈥檛 be friends. What should I do?
* I have a very unique question. I am 14 years old and 6foot 2inches. As you can see I am very tall, whenever my parents and I go shopping, we can never find pants that fit me. My friends suggest buying custom made pants but my family is going through a rough time and we cant afford custome made clothing. What should I do???I have to make a teen magazine for a project. There is going to be an advice column but I need questions??????
Here is some examples
-I have a crush on one of my guy friends. I want to ask him out but I'm afraid if he says no it will ruin or friendship
-My friend bought me a sweater for my birthday. It's really cute for her but I think that it is SO HORRIFIC. How do I tell her that without hurting her feelings?
-I asked my mom if I could start wearing make-up to school because everyone else is. She got really mad at me and told me I don't need it, but I'm (insert age here) and I think I should!
-My teacher and I don't get along very well and she always makes bad comments about me. Even if I don't do anything wrong she'll yell at me or give me a bad grade. How do I tell her to stop without getting her even MORE mad at me?
-I bought a brand new pair of jeans last weekend but my best friend thinks that they make me look bad, I think that they look fine. Shuld I believe her, or myself?
hope that gave you some ideas.I have to make a teen magazine for a project. There is going to be an advice column but I need questions??????
I like two boys a lot. And I know that they both like me, so, here's my problem: Every time I hang out with one guy, the other one gets jelous. I can't go on dates with them and I don't know how to deal with the situation, what should I do?
I hvae shoulder length brown hair and blue eyes. Really fair skin and a round face. What makeup color do you think would go best for me?
I have this graduation dress, it is really pretty, but I need some shoes to go with it, the colors in the dress are, violet, yellow, a little brown, and green. What should I get?????
Try I am in school and i get bullied for being a virgin what should i do
or
I am pregnant and i cant afford stuff
try craigslist for the answer on the 2nd one
Or
I am teenager who needs help with feeling comfortable to read in class. I can read well but when they ask i get all anxious
I have a huge crush on my friend's boyfriend and I think he might like me too, what should I do?
I have really bad acne and i don't know how to controlt it--help!!
Girl advice for teen guy?
Im a teen guy, 17, and I really like this 15 year old girl at the theater im in... shes so beautiful and is a really great person overall... the problem is her parents are really overprotective and wont even let her go out, let alone get a boyfriend or anything... Ive actually never had a girlfriend myself but i would like to ask her out... but i dont get the feeling she's into me at all... she teases that im too short and doesnt take me too seriously for some reason (Im 5'9 thats not that short is it? but shes 5'8) Anyway what should I do? Id appreciated honest, thoughtful adviceGirl advice for teen guy?
some girls make fun of the guys they like,
get close to her,
once your at that place then ask her out,
you can deal with parents once you date her.
Girl advice for teen guy?
omg thats so cute. im 17 to and havent really had a boyfriend either but i reackon you sholud just go for it. my parents are over protective. i dont know about her lying to her parents and all but if you actually talk to her about going out on a date and she says yes then i reckon you could try talking to her parents to reconsider.
5'9'; is a perfect height don't worry about that. Well I think that you should ask her out. Even if she does turn you down you will be ready for the next one. There are a million girls out there. She could also be making fun of you because she secretly likes you.
it sounds like you really like this girl. Talk to her about how you feel. Alone, dont ask/talk to her about it in front of her friends or your friends. And she probably makes fun of you because she likes you too. :)
she is teasing cuz she likes u, my girl would come in everyday and slap me on the back of the head, but now we r together and that was just flirting, go for it
some girls make fun of the guys they like,
get close to her,
once your at that place then ask her out,
you can deal with parents once you date her.
Girl advice for teen guy?
omg thats so cute. im 17 to and havent really had a boyfriend either but i reackon you sholud just go for it. my parents are over protective. i dont know about her lying to her parents and all but if you actually talk to her about going out on a date and she says yes then i reckon you could try talking to her parents to reconsider.
5'9'; is a perfect height don't worry about that. Well I think that you should ask her out. Even if she does turn you down you will be ready for the next one. There are a million girls out there. She could also be making fun of you because she secretly likes you.
it sounds like you really like this girl. Talk to her about how you feel. Alone, dont ask/talk to her about it in front of her friends or your friends. And she probably makes fun of you because she likes you too. :)
she is teasing cuz she likes u, my girl would come in everyday and slap me on the back of the head, but now we r together and that was just flirting, go for it
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